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Helping Others Belong

by Brian Watts

Article originally posted on Mountain State University blog.

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In a recent post, I wrote about the role leaders take in encouraging community in their organizations. I appreciate all of you who added comments to the post with additional ideas for creating community.

How important are leaders in building community?

Wally Bock made an interesting assertion that leaders have a marginal role in creating community, since communities are formed by the voluntary actions of the people involved. While I agree that leaders cannot single-handedly “create” community, leaders in a group can positively encourage the growth of community through commitment and dedication.

Your role or position as a leader may give you a false sense of community.

Community is formed when people are interconnected in relationships.Yet your position as a leader in a group may hinder your ability to gauge the connectedness of the others in the group. After all, YOU are well connected; working and interacting with many others in the group, you certainly feel a sense of belonging. You may observe others in the group to determine how well they are interconnected, but even this may not be an accurate assessment.

Ask people in the group if they feel connected as part of the community.

Why not ask? Ask the people in your group if they feel that they belong. Ask them if they feel connected to others in community. Though people long to be connected in community with others, interconnectedness and a sense of belonging are often elusive. Many people feel lost in a crowd, isolated even when surrounded by others.

Help people take ownership of the group.

One way to help people gain a sense of belonging and connectedness that leads to community is to invite them to contribute to the group. Encourage them to take responsibility for creating community. As people exercise their gifts and abilities, they will gain a sense of ownership for the group. As their engagement  increases, so will their sense of belonging — once spectators on the sidelines, now team members participating in community.

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If you haven’t heard of Susan Boyle, you aren’t alone…at least as of last week.

This video is a must see (7:05 minutes). Susan is a contestant on the British talent show “Britain’s Got Talent”. She performed on April 11, 2009 and her performance has become a global sensation with millions of online views in just one week.

Beyond her stunning talent, the thing I LOVED MOST about her performance is how easy it was for the audience (and yes, I’m guilty as charged) to make assumptions beforehand about who she was and what she was (or wasn’t) capable of. In her completely unassuming, down-to-earth and quirky way, she dared to come forward before the world and absolutely shatter those assumptions in seconds.

But the key thing is that she DARED to allow her brilliant talent to be expressed without holding back in any way. Listen to the things she says in her preliminary comments and consider the enormity of the situation she put herself in. And look at the impact it had!!!  She overcame the cynics immediately, connected the show’s audience together in undeniably exuberant support, and to the world with millions of online views…

Susan really personifies the essence of what Connected In Community is about. She is an everyday person who DARES to express her special gift with the world without apology, hesitation or reserve. She dares to let it SHINE brightly, and look at the shockwaves it can create when we trust it, express it and let it go.

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My wife and I love good music…both making it and appreciating it.

This week, I came across a recent recording of the age-old anthem, Amazing Grace. Always powerful, but WOW – this version is exceptional! Between the combination of the powerful male voices of Il Divo and the inclusion of the bagpipes, you won’t be able to help being uplifted and inspired!

The ancient setting is the Coliseum in Pula, Croatia – consider the beauty of this music in the same location as a war was waging just over a decade ago in the same place. Imagine how emotional it would be to be amidst a community of war survivors while hearing this music…

Amazing Grace was written by John Newton in the late 1700s. He was a slave trader who wrote about his spiritual journey from being a slave trader to advocating against the slave trade in 18th century England.

No matter how busy your day may be today, give yourself the gift of a few minutes right now and watch this performance.

As you do, I invite you to reflect on your place in the communities that you belong to…how are you using the gifts you have received through amazing grace to make those communities stronger and to improve the plight of others in those communities? How are you being called forth next and what action do you need to take to move in that direction?

P.S. Lyrics are below…
P.P.S. For an extended inspirational hit on the same theme, check out the fantastic DVD depiction of the English slave trade abolition (Amazing Grace) led by William Wilberforce. Talk about a community leader!

Amazing Grace Lyrics:

Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me.
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